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March 17th, 2009 | Posted in Blog | No Comments
I didn’t always understand the Be Do Have Principle.
Because I didn’t understand it, I always seem to wonder why I wasn’t creating the lifestyle I wanted.
And once I got it….I mean, really got it, my life transformed!
Do you understand the power of it?
It comes back to the principle of being the person you want to BE and then you Do what that person would do, to have what they would HAVE.
It starts with your THOUGHTS. Your THOUGHTS determine who you are. When you think you can or can’t do something, you affirm it in your action. The “doing” is the action based your beliefs about yourself. Then, of course, we manifest or “have” what we think we can have. If I decide I’m going to be a singer. I start thinking and moving through life as a great singer. The actions I take are based on what I think about being a great singer.
Do I believe it? Can I see myself living this way? Do I feel good when singing?
I practice and practice. I put myself out there as a singer. I start to have results through my being and doing. People start asking to me sing at their wedding. Teams call for me to sing the National Anthem. A band wants to record with me. I put out the vibration that I am a great singer and move that way in my life. Yes, Be Do Have!
“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”-Mahatma Gandhi
It All Starts With….Being!
I know some people just don’t get the be do have principle because they want to have a million dollars in the bank and then they will feel like a millionaire….
… No! That is not how it works!
In fact, its backwards!
Get this, you must BE the millionaire first, long before you actually have the money in your bank account! How would a Millionaire think? How would they make decisions? Decide on the being! Be Do Have is very powerful if you understand it all starts with the BEING!
For example, many women worry constantly about being overweight.
What they could be doing, to harness the power of their thoughts, is focusing on “being” the thinner person.
How would a thinner person eat? What would a person do after dinner….go for a walk or sit down and watch t.v. the rest of the evening?
Instead what do some women do?
They go to the dreaded bathroom scale, look at it, feel horrible about what the scale says and attract more negative energy about their weight by the defining number. I know I have allowed the scale to dictate whether I was feeling great about myself or not depending upon the number.
A person looking for a great relationship with a woman might say, “I am so happy that I have a wonderful woman in my life that I enjoy being around everyday.”
What would that committed person do?
How would they act?
What would they do together? Do those things!
Even though you don’t at the present moment have a woman in your life or even know of any female possibilities.
Create A New Reality
Create your new reality by using this simple be do have principle!
The above positive affirmation is putting you into direct alignment with your goal of having a wonderful woman in your life. You must BE that person that has the wonderful woman, DO the things that person would do first before you will ever HAVE the relation you are looking for.
A runner moves through life as a runner.
When I wake up in the morning, I look at the clock and snuggle in for a few minutes. Then I get up and put on my running clothes…without putting too much thought into it because if I thought too much about it I would probably stay right in my cozy bed.
Wait! Did I say “probably” stay in bed…..I would stay in bed!!
I made the decision a long time ago that I was a runner, so guess what that means? It means I get up and run, because I am a runner, even when I don’t feel like it. I eat healthy because I am a runner. I go into a clothing store and look for running clothes. I have more running shoes than any other type of shoe. I buy running magazines. You get the picture. It is who I am BEING.
Embrace the power of Be Do Have!
Someone that is successful in business does not wait until the results show! A successful business person must BE a person that moves through his/her day as a success.
Make the decisions a successful business person would make!
A successful business person wouldn’t make his/her decisions based on money, they make their decision based on their goals!
Be that person!
Use Be Do Have to create the success you are looking for!
Rich Blessings
Ettore
March 16th, 2009 | Posted in Blog | 2 Comments
How exactly does the law of attraction work, and how can I become a firm believer in it?
Quantum Physics teaches that nothing is fixed, that there are no limitations, that everything is vibrating Energy. By understanding that everything is Energy in a state of potential and by applying the Law of Attraction to bring into our lives what we focus on, it is never necessary to feel stuck with an undesirable life. With quantum physics, science is leaving behind the notion that human beings are powerless victims and moving toward an understanding that we are fully empowered creators of our lives and of our world. Everything is Energy.
If you take your hand and put it under a proper microscope,you will see a mass of energy vibrating,its not really solid.Nothing is…Not even your car,house,table,chair your sitting in,money,relationships!
Einstein’s 1905 formula E = mc2 explains the relationship between Energy and matter, i.e., that Energy and matter are interchangeable – that, in reality, everything is Energy – dancing, fluid, ever-changing Energy.
This Energy is influenced by our thoughts. It is shapeable, formable, and moldable. As Creators, we shape, form and mold the Energy of the Universe through our thoughts. We transform the Energy of our thoughts into the Energy of our reality.
The popular movie, What the Bleep Do We Know!?, clarifies that quantum physics is the physics of possibility. We have been conditioned to believe that the external world is more real than the internal world. Quantum physics says just the opposite. It says that what’s happening on the inside determines what’s happening on the outside. It says that our world is shaped by our thoughts.
Since nothing is fixed and everything is in a state of potential, everything is possible. As we understand that everything is possible, and as we focus our thoughts on what we want to attract, we can literally call into existence whatever we desire.
The Universe exists as infinite potential in infinite abundance. As we focus our thoughts, we have the power to bring our desires into existence, our dreams into reality. As we focus our thoughts, we have the power to be and do and have whatever we desire.
Almost every religion tells us that we have been created in the Image and Likeness of the Creative Source,that should obviously mean that we have God potential and power to create our world,that we are indeed God like and have all the qualites of God. As God is omnipresent, God/infinite power/source/spirit must be present within every individual, hence every individual must be a manifestation of that Omnipresent,Omniscient and Omnipotent Consciousness…I am not saying we are God,but we are of God. So,its necessary to put ourselves in harmony with this law to reap its benefits, otherwise we suffer its consequences.
Rich Blessings
Ettore
March 6th, 2009 | Posted in Blog | No Comments
We talk about the fact that the more attractive your business is, the more customers you’ll attract via word of mouth. We also talked about the Attraction Quotient being a key to that.
Let me explain…
Imagine owning a business that is SO attractive … that you have queues of people lining up out the front waiting to do business with you.
And imagine too that you never have to spend a cent on advertising. That referrals flow in thick and fast. So thick and fast that you don’t need to spend a cent of money on advertising… customers simply flock to you. In fact, customers actually aspire to be clients of yours because it’s such an attractive thing to do.
Companies that have a high attraction quotient actually experience this on a daily basis.
Here are six key factors that impact your AQ …
1. Experience
What kind of customer experience do you deliver that creates an absolute WOW in the hearts and minds of your customers? Not just answering the phone on three rings or underpromising and overdelivering, but how can you leave them gob-smacked from the very moment they first set eyes on your business. How well do you do that?
2. Your USP or UVP Unique Selling Proposition
What do you do to stand out head and shoulders above your competition in such a way that it delivers massive value to your audience?
3. Brand
How strong is your brand in the hearts and minds of your consumer? What message is it sending? Is it attractive to your customers?
4. Culture
What is it like to work for you? The attractiveness of your corporate culture has a direct bearing on how attractive your business is to customers.
5. Heart
What does your company do to make a difference? To give back? The companies that have the biggest hearts are often the ones that create the most attraction.
6. And last but not least, viral appeal.
Once you do great things how easy are you making it for potential customers to see how attractive your business is? Viral marketing is a little like word of mouth marketing but on a much bigger scale. When people tell the world about something they’ve seen or experienced those people tell others and those people tell others and so on.
Rich Blessings
Ettore
March 2nd, 2009 | Posted in Blog | No Comments
A Weekend That Will Change Your Financial Life Forever!
“The Secret Psychology of Wealth” 3rd - 5th April 2009 (Fri ~ Sun), ExCel London - UK
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Using the principles he teaches, T. Harv Eker went from zero to millionaire in only 2 1/2 years! He combines a unique brand of ’street-smarts with heart’. T. Harv Eker is the founder and president of Peak Potentials Training, the fastest growing personal development company in North America.
Eker’s high-energy, ‘cut-to-the-chase’ style keeps his audience spellbound. T. Harv Eker’s motto is “talk is cheap” and his unique ability is getting people to take “action” in the real world to produce real success.
Eker is the author of the best-selling books, Secrets of the Millionaire Mind and SpeedWealth. He has also developed several highly-acclaimed courses such as The Millionaire Mind Intensive, Life Directions, Wizard Training and Train the Trainer. He is also the producer and trainer of the world-famous Enlightened Warrior Training.
T. Harv Eker is the son of European immigrants who came to North America with only thirty dollars to their name. He grew up in Toronto, but spent most of his adult years in the United States.
Money was scarce throughout his childhood, so at thirteen, Eker began his work career. As a teen he delivered newspapers, scooped ice cream, sold novelties at fairs, and suntan lotions at the beach. After a year at York University, he decided to take time off to pursue his dream of becoming a millionaire.
During his early adult years, he lived in five different cities, including Lake Tahoe and Ft. Lauderdale. He had a variety of jobs and started more than a dozen different businesses, but regardless of what he did, or how hard he worked, he just couldn’t achieve success.
Finally after many years of frustration, Eker hit the jackpot. He opened one of the first retail fitness stores in North America and grew the business to ten stores in only two and a half years. He then sold part of the company to a Fortune 500 corporation.
With the sale, Eker reached his dream. He was finally a Millionaire; however, in less than two years, the money was gone. Through a combination of poor investments and unchecked spending, Eker was back at his original net worth … again.
It was at that point that Eker began developing his theories about people’s mental and emotional relationship to money. He realized that his “inner-money thermostat” was set for a specific amount of financial success, and that everyone else had a financial set point too. His most profound discovery was that this money blueprint could be changed. Using the principles and practices found in his book, Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, Eker reset his own blueprint to not only create success, but to keep it and grow it, and become a multi-millionaire.
During his years of struggle, Eker vowed that should he ever get rich, he would help others do the same. He has kept his promise. Today, he is the president of Peak Potentials Training, one of the largest and fastest-growing seminar companies in the world. He has already touched the lives of over 500,000 people, helping them move closer to their goal of true financial freedom.
Over 500,000 participants have come from all over the world to attend T.Harv Eker’s seminars. His events change people’s lives!
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Rich Blessings
Ettore
February 16th, 2009 | Posted in Blog | No Comments
Some people scorn at the mere mention of money. How many times have you heard people say “Money is the root of all evil” or “Money isn’t everything”? Well, they are right; at least for them.
They truly believe these statements; however, most people never examine what they believe.
For the longest time, many people believed that the earth was flat and that if you traveled the end of it, you would fall off the edge. People were trapped; they were stuck in a world that reached out only as far as they could see. They were stuck not because that was all that they had available to them, but because that’s all they “believed” they had. But it was an illusion that they created by what they believed to be the truth.
They firmly held on to this belief until one day someone proved them wrong by sailing around the world. And in doing so, a whole new world of possibilities and opportunities opened up for everyone.
Our Belief System (B.S.) is a funny creature. You see, beliefs are not necessarily based on what’s true or factual in the world. They are formed based on what we heard, observed, or have been taught, and they have tremendous power over the quality of your entire life. You adopted your many of your core beliefs when you were a child. During your childhood, your beliefs about money were transferred to you from your parents, teachers, religious leaders, televisions, and your friends, and these beliefs have become apart of the programming in your subconscious mind. Your money beliefs dictate if you are an abundant and prosperous or not. They created a filter which directs all of your decisions you make and actions you take which have a direct effect on the financial results you get in your life.
Now, you can believe whatever you want to believe about money; however, you must realize that you will attract events, circumstances, experiences, and people into your life that are in alignment with your beliefs, which will in turn strengthen those beliefs further. This attraction is the essence of The Law of Attraction.
Some of your beliefs are beneficial, such as the belief that you should save a percentage of all money you earn. However, other beliefs can keep you locked in a mental prison of unhappiness, financial mediocrity, or poverty. I call these types of beliefs, limiting beliefs or blockers because they literally limit what you believe is possible for you to experience in your life, and they block your prosperity and your happiness. In fact, these beliefs say you are a “limited Being”, thus they prevent you from having financial abundant.
Here are some examples of limiting beliefs:
Money doesn’t grow on trees!
I can’t afford that!
You can’t be rich and spiritual!
Rich people are greedy and dishonest!
If I’m wealthy, my friends will be jealous and stop liking me!
I’m not smart enough to be wealthy!
I have to work harder if I want to earn more money!
Do any of these sound familiar to you?
The list of limiting beliefs probably can continue to fill several pages because most people have hundreds of limiting beliefs which blocks the flow of financial abundance from flowing into their lives. You may not know this yet, but your money beliefs are the blueprint for your financial results, and they will determine your level of financial abundance you choose and are willing to accept into your life. Most people never do any critical thinking to investigate what they believe and why they believe it. If they did, most would be surprised what they found.
Now, if you have limiting beliefs in you subconscious mind, you can transform them into more productive and positive beliefs, which then supports you in being open to receiving financial abundance.
For example:
There is an infinite amount of wealth me to tap into, and it flows in my life constantly.
I can do what I love, and earn money doing it.
Money is easy to earn.
I can be rich, and I can be Zen (spiritual).
Now, you are entitled to your beliefs, but let me ask you a question. How have your beliefs been working out for you so far?
If you’re not experiencing financial abundance and prosperity, then I invite you to examine your beliefs you hold about money and wealth. Are you willing to give up old, worn out beliefs that do NOT serve you in order to live an abundant, prosperous life?
To do this, you’re going to need to identify your hidden money beliefs and transform them. I can hear you saying “If my beliefs are hidden, how do I know what they are?”
One way you can identify your hidden limiting belief is by looking at the difference between your desires and your current results. For example, if you truly desire to have a new BMW, but you’re driving a 10 year old, beat up old Ford, then you have a belief in your subconscious mind that repels the BMW from your life.
Action Item: Limiting Beliefs
To discover this belief or beliefs, do the following exercise. Get a sheet of paper and draw a vertical line down the paper center of the page to create two columns. In the left column, write your desire. In the right column, right the reason why you don’t have it.
For example, let’s say you desire a 2008 BMW 535.
In the left column, write 2008 BMW 535. In the right column, wite all the reasons you don’t have it.
For example, you may write:
•I can’t afford that car.
•This is a car for a rich person, and I am not rich.
•I don’t deserve a car like this!
•People will think I am wasting my money if I purchased this car.
•My friends will think I am trying to be better than them.
•This car is too classy for me.
It is very worthwhile to spend some time looking at the reasons why you believe you can’t have your desires right now. So, do this exercise and write down your reasons about why you can’t have your desires as they in pop into your conscious mind. Thee reasons you write in the right colum are your limiting beliefs that his block what you desire.
Once you identify your limiting beliefs, you must transform them into beliefs that will support you in becoming a money magnet. To transform your limiting beliefs can be as simple as deciding one day that a particular belief no longer serves you, and then choose a new belief to replace it.
Another limiting belief that I had was that it took hard work to make money. After examining this belief, I concluded if hard work guaranteed financial success, then all construction workers would be wealthy. After all, these people work really hard, but most of these workers are far from being wealthy. If you are working hard and working long hours on your job, are you wealthy yet or are you still trapped in the “rat race”? This limiting belief has been passed down from generation to generation, but do you see the fallacy in this belief?
Transforming your limiting beliefs can take some time and diligent effort, but it’s absolutely achievable. I did it, and thousands of other people live financially abundant lives. Now, the process of overcoming your limiting beliefs is like peeling off the layers of an onion. As you peel off the layers, more abundance will flow into your life.
Rich Blessings
Ettore
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