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May 31st, 2011 | Posted in Blog | No Comments
Contrary to popular opinion, creating unlimited financial wealth won’t come from chasing more money.
Now don’t get me wrong, I can help you make more money–plenty of it! And if the statement above seems counterintuitive to you, then that’s exactly why you and I need to spend more time together. Check this out…
A recent Gallup poll posted in USA Today found that 55% of those surveyed state their families are worse off financially today than they were this same time last year. This is the highest number since 1976, and it’s an eleven-point jump since February of this year.
Interestingly enough, in the very same survey, 26% say they’re better off than they were a year ago. What gives?
How is it that in the same economy (with the same government officials, the same war, same gas prices, same housing market) that one group thinks their finances are doing poorly but another group actually believes things are better?
Now you might think that the 26% are just some of the more privileged few… maybe. But just suppose there’s more to it than that. The answer to this question resides in a money paradox that a distinct few understand and most may never grasp. We’ll get to that in a minute.
While many people believe wealth is equated to vast sums of money, if you trace the root of the word wealth back to its origins, it literally translates as “well-being”.
Now I know you might be thinking, “Well Ettore, if I had more money, I’d have more true wealth and well-being!”
But studies show that this is not necessarily the case… In fact, most often it’s not.
A recent survey posted by US Private Banks surveyed individuals with a net worth of $38 million or more. Of those surveyed, 65% stated that they felt “financially insecure.” Now get this… These are people with a net worth of at least $38 million! So maybe it’s not just the privileged few that are feeling better off than last year.
Think about it, if you have a net worth of $38M and wake up in the morning feeling financially insecure… with wealth being defined as well-being, are you truly wealthy? The obvious answer is a resounding “No!”
Many Americans believe that a new president is the answer to our situation. Many believe that dealing with the oil and gas companies will make things better. Even more think that if we get out of the war in Iraq, all will become harmonious. While all of these issues may have an impact, they are in no way the answer.
So what is the answer? What will bring more financial well-being into your life? The answer resides in the thoughts, feelings and actions of you as an individual.
First, shift your focus of attention.
Get your mind and continued thoughts off the economy and all the problems being pumped into your home by the mass media. As difficult as this may be, those who are truly wealthy–financially and otherwise–choose where they place their attention and stand guard like a watchdog at the gates of their mind.
Peter Lynch once stated, “I don’t spend more than 15 minutes a year thinking about the economy.” Lynch’s results speak for themselves. Stop. Just stop for a moment and think rationally… There’s no way in hell that any company’s true worth can fluctuate as dramatically on any given day as the New York Stock Exchange would indicate. It’s nothing but an opinion–and other people’s opinions are only predictions if you allow them to be.
There’s a principle in our universe which states: Energy flows where attention goes. So consider this: Where are you directing your energy and attention every single day? Regardless of what you answer, your current results will tell the truth… for your results are a reflection of you.
Second, stop chasing the money.
Science tells us that everything is vibration, including your thoughts, feelings and actions… And yes, even your money. Now think about this… If you’re constantly thinking, feeling and acting (what I call going “3 for 3″) as if you “need more, need more,” what’s the real message you’re sending out energetically? You guessed correctly if you said the message is, “You don’t have it.”
The universe hears the real message at the level of vibration and states, “Your wish is my command!” As a result, you’ll end up living your life always wanting but never having. You’ll never get financially wealthy with that strategy.
Third, be grateful for all the good that currently exists in your life.
If all things are an energetic vibration (which they are) and energy flows where attention goes (which it does), then to place your consistent attention upon the things for which you’re grateful is one of the most powerful things you can do. Unlike the message of “I don’t have it,” when you place your attention with gratitude on all the goodness that currently exists, it’s like stating, “Thank you for this. Send me more.” When you get grateful, the universe sends you more to be grateful for.
Finally, consistently focus on providing more value and service to the world.
Take the attention off of “What can I get?” and place it upon “What can I give?” If you want to have more, give more. Winners always give ten times more value than they ask for in return.
Doubt me? Look around. I challenge you to find a millionaire who’s not surrounded by six-figure income earners. Likewise, find any billionaire and they’ll be surrounded by multimillionaires. Why? Because you only profit handsomely in life by providing service and value to others. In other words, you’ll only get your big dreams by helping others get theirs.
Richard Branson, founder of Virgin Records and Virgin Airlines. There were two things Richard stated that really reinforced what I knew to be true. First, he stated, “I’ve never done anything in my life to make money. I just always ask, ‘Is it going to be fun?’”
Next, Richard stated, “Money is just a convenient way of keeping score.” If you truly understand this principle, you’ll realize that in a capitalistic society, the amount of money you have (or don’t have) is directly correlated to the depth and span of the value you provide.
So here’s the money paradox I mentioned earlier:
The greatest way to attract and create more money (or anything for that matter) is to not need it.
Now think it through again… If you need something, the real message you’re sending out is, “I don’t have it.” Your neediness is like a raging bonfire, and you’re throwing another log on it day after day, hoping it’ll go out. The only way to squelch the fire of your lack of financial abundance is to not feed it.
Just continually focus on providing tremendous value and service. Henry Ford so wisely put it years ago, “Money will never be achieved when sought after directly. It only comes as the by-product of providing a useful service.”
Truth is timeless.
Get your attention off the economy and your problems, stop chasing the money, become continually grateful for all the goodness you currently have and consistently think, feel and act on what you can give versus what you can get. You’ll have true wealth and well-being in every area: relational, mental, physical, spiritual and yes, financial. And just like Branson and so many others who have figured it out, you’ll have a lot of fun doing it.
Live Consciously
Ettore
May 28th, 2011 | Posted in Blog | No Comments
Last night I have gathered some really powerful insight after a mastermind with my group and after that I went to eat a pizza with my uncle whom is very experienced on this topic…The Subconscious Mind…so…
I have a question for you…Are you attracting into your life experiences, people, opportunities consciously or by default?
What does it mean? Well the vast majority of people don’t know that they don’t know. In the previous article on this blog I have explained the Competence Learning Matrix…(have a look at it…it is enlightening).
We have been conditioned to believe that life it what it is…and it is what it is because it has been passed in this way and that is it.
To explain this I will go little further down the “rabbit hole”. Stay with me ok!? 
The environment play a major role in shaping what we are and who we are…and the way we think about life and everything around us. We need to understand and become conscious about the fact that we were empty when we were born. Yes…empty. Picture a bucket with nothing inside…THAT IS YOU! The understanding of this fact will make you aware of the reality and the real situation enable you to make the point in your life right now…and providing you with the tools to shift your life if you really want to.
And then…what went through in that bucket? Have you ever pictured yourself in this way? Have you ever wondered where all your thinking, feelings, emotions and beliefs come from?
Very simple…from your environment…YEAP!!! You have been modeled and shaped from all your surrounding…what you heard, seen, felt at that time with you little Consciousness.
Dr. Konrad Lorenz was a Nobel Prize winning Austrian zoologist, ethologist, and ornithologist. Lorenz studied instinctive behavior in animals and working with geese, he rediscovered the principle of Imprinting.
What is the Imprinting phase? Imprinting is the term used in psychology and ethology to describe any kind of phase-sensitive learning (learning occurring at a particular age or a particular life stage) that is rapid and apparently independent of the consequences of behavior.
Who was then your environment related to the Imprinting phase? Your family…and after that your friends, and all the people that you have picked along the way. Yes sir. Stay on this thought for a moment…think and embrace it. If you have done so…it will be easy to understand your life the way that it is…and start to become conscious about it.
Looking your life with this new sight you should be more aware if you are attracting by default or consciously. This is the Missing Step in attracting anything in you want to become. Your Subconscious Mind…acknowledging the existence of it is the first step (You Know that You Don’t Know) …exploring it to understand and see what is inside is the second step…(You Know that You Know).
My dear friend it is time to change the world and the only way to do it…is Changing one person at a time…and it start with YOU! ME! US! and our Subconscious Mind…Yes…
to be continued…
Live Consciously
Ettore
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